BY: Dr. Lisa J. Wicker
BUILD YOUR CIRCLE, BUILD YOUR FUTURE: WHY CAREER WOMEN NEED A STRONG SUPPORT BASE
In uncertain times, one thing is crystal clear: connection is everything.
Today’s career woman is juggling more than ever—ambitions, responsibilities, relationships, and the ever present pressure to “have it all.” But even the most successful among us can’t do it alone. Now more than ever, women need real connection. A core circle. A support base built on trust, encouragement, and shared success.
Even the Greats Had Their Circle
Think about Alexander Graham Bell—yes, the inventor of the first practical telephone. History celebrates his brilliance, but what’s often overlooked is the company he kept. Bell surrounded himself with forward-thinkers, risk-takers, and wise minds. And that’s a lesson we should all take to heart.
Choose Your Circle with Intention
Let’s be honest—everyone wants to be around a winner. But not everyone clapping is cheering for you. As your star rises, it’s crucial to choose your circle wisely. Surround yourself with people who want to see you win, not just watch you win.
Be the Energy You Want to Attract
Your presence matters. How you show up—your attitude, your confidence, your spirit—either draws the right people in or pushes them away. Progress is magnetic. Purpose is contagious. So lean in. Let others see your shine and give them a reason to believe in you.
FIVE KEYS TO BUILDING A POWERFUL SUPPORT BASE
1. Let your light shine. Don’t dim your brilliance to make others comfortable. Stand tall in your purpose—it inspires others to do the same.
2. Celebrate the good people around you. Appreciation goes a long way. Nurture your relationships. Say thank you. Stay connected.
3. Be the energy people miss. Show up with authenticity, grace, and passion. Be memorable—in the best way.
4. Practice reciprocity. Support flows both ways. Be present. Be helpful. Be kind. The energy you give will come back to you.
5. Stay spiritually grounded. Pray for guidance, clarity, and to be aligned with people who are good for your growth—personally and professionally.
Final Thoughts
Your support base is one of your greatest assets. It’s not just about networking—it’s about net-worthing. Build wisely. Love fiercely. Lead boldly. You’re not in this alone. And you never have to be
Dr. Lisa J. Wicker, PhD,Internationally recognized HR executive, thought leader, author and career strategist, Dr. Lisa J. Lindsay Wicker shares contemporary relevant work life experiences and empowering principles with her clients as demonstrated in her books, The Winning Spirit, Power Play! and her award-winning release – Capacity: Women Shattering the Limits – NOW! With her dynamic approach to life and her signature style, she connects people across the world and finds her mission to be that of helping others to get the most out of their work lives and companies to create value. She is the founder/Chief Visionary of Career Mastered. Following prominent human resources careers with Fortune 50 Companies, Dr. Lisa established her Detroit, MI and Charlotte, NC firm, Linwick & Associates, LLC (LWA).
